Help Me Choose

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    Hi everyone. With schools opening up and all of us (ok, ok only me obviously) running around trying to get things together.....whew! Let me sit still and tell everyone thank you for supporting what I have put out so far and trying to keep the vision we all have for HPPPA now and into the future. But today will be short. Maybe you can help me pick a topic for the next entry. What do you think about "How Important is a Good Kiss?"," Lifestyle Clubs and Home Parties. How Can This Work for You?" or "The Luxury Consumers....What Does That Mean for Our Business?"

     Tell me what you want to want to read. Press send Feedback and give me some insight. Thanks so much for the support!

Foot Fetish......Tickle, Tickle.

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    Hi everyone. I am here sitting at the nail salon finishing off my biweekly pedicure. As usual I laughed so much and so hard that the lady sitting next to me and the nail technician started to giggle (Oh well if you can't beat 'em, join 'em...right). Me and my ticklish feet (blah). But my laughable moment got me to thinking about foot fetish and what is it all about. 
   
     Let's take a peek into what is a foot fetish. According to Wikipedia foot fetish or foot fetishism, foot partialism, foot worship, or podophilia is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is the most common form of sexual fetishism for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts (and the most searched sexual term on the internet.....who knew?).
    
     Which means a foot fetish is the need or desire of the person to play with their lover's feet. This will help them reach sexual satisfaction. And it's not always the entire foot that someone may be attracted to. It could be just the nails, toes, ankles, shoes (Oh my goodness! I have a foot fetish!), even jewelry that is worn on the foot. 

    Now that you know what the meaning is. And you realize your partner has a foot fetish. What do you do?! Don't get all freaked out! Take you time and learn what they like. Most people who have this fetish still have a "normal" (did you laugh at the word normal too? ) sex life. Just relax. This fetish can be virtually harmless.

    Let's look at some of the things that can turn on your foot loving partner. They may enjoy foot visuals, smells and textures. Wearing sexy shoes (any opportunity for me to buy new shoes makes me happy!), the feel of thigh highs and panty hose, even knee high socks can turn them on. They may even like the odor of your smelly socks. Giving massages with edible or flavored lubes can be enjoyable and masturbating with the foot or giving a "foot job" can excite your lover to the point of orgasm. 

     Remember with practice (and well pedicured toes) feet can do almost anything hands can do! Well until next time folks..... Allow Us Inside of Your Bedroom.

Anal Sex......Try It You May Like It

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     So what exactly is anal sex? Well according to Wikipedia anal sex is generally the insertion and thrusting (thrusting...wow! Who is afraid of that word) of the erect penis into a person's anus and/or rectum for sexual pleasure. Other forms of anal sex include: fingering (which I always recommend for novices and personally I find it more comfortable), the use of sex toys for anal penetration, oral sex performed on the anus (anilingus....we will chat about that in a later post....maybe Anal Sex: The Series) and pegging (Don't give me that look)

      Just like anything else, anal sex has it's risks. According to Wikipedia some of the general risks include: infections due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere in the body. And physical damage to the anus and rectum due to their fragility. 

     Even with all the facts some of us are still curious. How can we tell our partner we want to give a try in the butt? Just be careful when deciding to broach the subject. We definitely do NOT want the love of our life or even the side piece to feel inadequate sexually. Here are some suggestions on how to make this adventure easier. 
   
     First, you have to be open and honest. Talk about what you are feeling. When I finally decided I wanted to try anal. I was a bit nervous to chat about it with my partner. I didn't want him to think I was gross. It was awkward in the beginning but with ALOT of blushing and stuttering (and dry mouth and I think my palms were sweaty...ewww) Even through all of that I was able to get my message across. As our conversation continued we definitely found the desire to be mutual (thank goodness).
     
     So what's next? Do you just grab the anal lube and go to town? Not yet. We definitely want to set the mood. Make sure the person you are with is super comfortable. Some pheromone candles (or any yummy smelling candle you have on hand). Soft music playing in the background. Take a warm relaxing bath or nice leisurely shower together. Washing each other would make any man or woman feel like royalty. Paying attention to the rear end is something I recommend. I personally love bathing together. It's sensual and puts my mind at ease. Feeling your lover touch you so very intimately is a sure fire way to let them know I'm here and I care. 
     
     Now off to the bedroom where the party begins. Fast forward past the drying your partner off, maybe a sweet massage, nibbles and kisses....here we are on the bed. And the moment is staring us RIGHT IN THE FACE! (Whew, did it get hot in here??) Don't make this more painful than it needs to be. Maybe you should try fingering your partner, using the lube of your choice. Try 1 finger at a time, slowly sliding back and forth (can not stress enough please be liberal with the lube!) We can also try anilingus. This may make your partner scream the heavens down. Steady, gentle licks on the anus sends chills down anyone's spine.  
     
     This might be where you stop. Some aren't ready to go "all the way" in one night. And that's fine. There are no real rules to anal sex. Just take your time, relax and enjoy. Try including some of these methods in your regular foreplay so your lover can be comfortable with the sensations, eventually you may introduce new positions that allow more or less access to the anus. 
     
     "Bottom" line (wink) is we want to have fun and maybe even achieve the elusive anal orgasm. I bet that term got your attention! Well until next time folks.....Allow Us Inside of Your Bedroom!

Let Me Introduce Myself

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     Hello world! My name is VernĂ©e Peters (going by Mistress Starr for all of my posts). I'm happy and excited to be a blogger for HPPPA!! (Can't you tell with all the exclamation points I'm putting everywhere?!?!) I have been a home party planner ten years next February and have been with HPPPA for about a year or so. (Yaaay!)
 
     As you get the opportunity to read, I will share facts sprinkled with a bit of fun, tips and tricks once a week (Look, another exclamation point)! Im looking forward to every sentence. Stay tuned....Allow Us Inside of Your Bedroom.

"Show Us Your Pleasure Party Display Table Challenge"

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With all of the challenges going around Facebook, we'd like to issue a challenge to any home pleasure party plan owner.

Our challenge is called the "Show Us Your Pleasure Party Display Table Challenge". Post a picture of your product display table on our private & public pages (facebook.com/hpppa). A panel of HPPPA members will review all challenge entries & pick a winner. The winner will receive a prize.

The Show Us Your Pleasure Party Display Table Challenge runs through August 31st. The winner will be selected & his/her name will be posted on September 19th. Share this with other party plan owners you know.