I don't remember a time when masturbation was "taboo". Maybe because my parents didn't really discuss things like that (and i definitely wasn't going to ask them). But some of you reading this remember when touching your private area was a no-no.
As teenage years fade away and we begin to "mature" we use masturbation as more than just to bring ourselves pleasure. It now becomes a stress reliever. It also becomes a way to relax. Even a way to fully wake up in the morning. (To think for so many years I've used an alarm clock. What a waste!) It's also the best way to learn about sexuality.
Let us look a bit further into the benefits of self pleasure. People who do indulge in it, discovers what they enjoy the most sexually and how to reach an orgasm. My favorite phrase is "you have to love yourself before you expect anyone else to". When doing any adult home pleasure party I always explain to the clients that you have to find out what feels.good to YOU in the bedroom. How do we expect our lover to figure that out? That's a lot of pressure!
As we grow sexually masturbation also increases self esteem. Why not? You are touching the very body that gives you pleasure. How beautiful is that?! And it strengthens muscle tone in the pelvic and anal areas reducing a woman's changes of have "accidents". (Hey this is getting better and better!)
Is there any risks with masturbation? I mean you don't have a chance of getting an STD or becoming pregnant. You have the perfect partner.....yourself! What could possible be wrong with this?! Well it depends on your upbringing. If there was negative feedback on masturbation during your youth you may feel shame. Then there is skin irritation if lube isn't used. And here is a warning to all that may still live at home with family or have a roommate; please DO NOT masturbate and wear earphones. You may not hear that knock at your bedroom door. (Oh no!!!!)
There are many ways to enjoy masturbation. Some add adult toys to their alone time (yaaay we love adult toys!) While others even have a partner or others present. A few guys may like the feel of warm mayonnaise in a jar (umm no thanks i will have mustard on my sandwich today.) And some women like to indulge right before sex.
Bottom line, this is "normal", great for physical and mental health and such fun when done like, EVERYTHING else in the world, with moderation. Sit back and discover! You maybe surprised what you enjoy.
Well until next time folks.....Allow Us Inside of Your Bedroom.